Are we just playing friends?

 

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Friends? that one sentences that make me wonder and realize. do i have any true friends?

as i see nowadays friend is just like making friends because there is benefit or interest if just once lost interest. we’re also lost friendship anyway. is this kind of friendship nowadays?

since elementary school until high school, i don’t really care about friend whether i have many or not. i just let it be. i can get along with someone i don’t know before. Man that was a great moment.

but now since i step university or college, i like to choose friends. maybe that’s just naturally. as i know we’re making friends to take advantage, merit, if there is not benefit anymore. they just go away, they don’t even say “Hi” or “Hello” to you anymore. even if we meet each other sometimes they just keep pretending we’ve never met before. from stranger to stranger. that’s way too funny.

sometimes i think it’s better if from the start i don’t get along with them, if we already get along with them, the closer they are to you, the greater the pain when some of them leave you hanging, leave you behind and even don’t try to help you.  it’s kind of scary when something suddenly changes. especially when someone we know become somebody that we used to know.

that moment when they studied with us together, when they hang around with us, sharing each other, or even singing and playing together. i hate feeling when i admit someone’s as a friend but they don’t. it’s like one hand clapping.

recently i have this in mind ; ” Our Relationship aren’t just playing friends, right?” because i don’t want to be just playing friends. 

friends is not like a game when you want to play it, you come and then when suddenly you get bored, you just go away whenever you want.

i doubt i have any true friends, but who knows? time passed by i believe that i will find some, especially when siting around with them always remind with Allah. that’s some kind of relief and blessing.

You don’t need to make 100 friends. Just make real friends that you care about 100 times as much, Even if you only have one, so long as they’re a friend you really care about.

and accidentally i find this quote from Joquesse Eugenia and really fit my post haha 😀

I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. If we don’t vibrate on the same frequency there’s just no reason for us to waste our time. I’d rather have no one and wait for substance than to not feel someone and fake the funk.

Dua For All :)

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For Parents:

1. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) give our Parents long life.
2. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) fulfill our Parents expectation.
3. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) wash all sorrow of our Parents.
4. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) bless on our Parents.
5. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) give them a life which is full of happiness.
6. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) guide them to Paradise.

For Friends:

1. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) make our Friends pious.
2. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) fulfill our friends all wishes.
3. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) show our Friends right path.
4. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) increase our Friends happiness & moments of joy.
5. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) make our Friends successful. 
6. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) guide our Friends to Paradise.

For Muslims:

1. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) give our Ummah unity.
2. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) give our Ummah wisdom
3. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) give our Ummah Health, wealth, and of all the above.

Ameen Aameen ya Rabb! 🙂