Powerful Tips for the Last 10 Nights

Maybe i know it’s alr late to say this but  Ramadhan Al mubarak to my brothers and sisters in islam 😀

I hope Allah pass over us with blessings, Iman, safety, and in the belief of Islam. Grant us the ability to act on the actions that You love and Pleases You. My Lord and Your Lord is Allah”. [tirmithi-ahmad] 

and we also can continue our good deed as if Ramadhan still keep going InsyaAllah 🙂

so i got this on this site, it is such a waste or i will feel bad if i just apply this by myself without let others know tho maybe many people alr know about this 🙂

anyway My symphaty on our brothers and sister in gaza, the most powerful to take responsibility of this massacre is world government; but it doesn’t mean we couldn’t do anything. don’t forget to always pray to Allah for our brothers and sisters in Palestine, 


So this is powerful tips for the last 10 night hope can be of any use

10 malam akhir ramadan

1. Do not let your ‘performance’ until now affect your last 10 days. The moment of forgiveness could be today or anytime in the coming days! It is not all lost! If you sincerely wish it could have been better – Chin up and get ready to make it your best yet! Start with a positive, sincere intention!

2. Today, take a little time to read the Tafseer of Surah al-Qadr to understand what actually happens this night! You will feel its power & greatness so much more!

3. Do not wait for the 27th Night to give it your “all”. The entire last 10 days should be your target. Stay up each night! Would you want to miss Laylatul Qadr even “by chance”?

4. Do not fall into any innovations/celebrations any masjid or culture might try to promote. Follow the Sunnah! The Prophet (sallAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam) guided us simply: “Whoever stays up and prays on Laylat al-Qadr out of faith and in the hope of reward, his previous sins will be forgiven.”

5. Memorize and keep asking the dua’ taught by Rasulullah (sallAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam): Allaahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibb al-‘afwa fa’affu ‘anni (O Allaah, You are forgiving and You love forgiveness, so forgive me).

6. Prepare a short dua’ list. Remember this is as awesome as it ever gets for a servant of Allah! The Night of Qadr, of Destiny! Consciously pick each and everything you crucially wish for in this dunya, in your deen, family, and in your aakhirah! Don’t forget to include the brothers and sisters around the world who are suffering and in grief!

7. Take brief naps during the day, if possible. Keep your stomach light and sleep as soon as you have prayed ‘isha. Do not delay! After a brief nap, refresh yourself and get. ready for worship.

8. Don’t neglect your family! Rasulullah made it a point to wake up his wives throughout these nights! And yes, your children are not too young to stay up some part of the night – if they can be allowed to play video games or watch TV, they can be inspired to be up atleast for sometime! Prepare them, make them excited, plan some activities for them to do!

9. Look the Part: The way we dress and prepare.has a big effect on our psychology. Wear your best, perfume yourself, and feel the energy!

10. Choose a spot, whether in the Masjid or in your home, where you can have peace and solitude. Keep your mushaf, praying mat, and water at hand so that you are not distracted by constantly getting up for this or that.

11. IMP: This is not the night to tweet pics or update FB statuses about how amazing the night is and how you are feeling & worshipping Allah! Let that be a secret between you & your Rabb! So switch off those phones, wifi, laptops and computers. Disconnect with the world, and connect with al-‘Afuww!

12. If you find yourself feeling sleepy, vary your acts of worship. Alternate between qiyaam, heartfelt dua’a, reading the Qur’an. Do not spend the night listening to lectures or recitations. Or do it only for a short while when you feel the sleep coming on!

13. Patience is the Key: The last 10 days might be tiring. You might still have work or school. This is the time to bear all that hardship, and keep firm sabr. Think how Allah has blessed you with this tremendous opportunity that might NEVER come again in your life again. If you knew for sure that this was your last Ramadan , if you knew certainly that Jannah was up for grabs, wouldn’t you sprint for it no matter what it takes?

14. This is most important: Keep husn adh-dhann bi Allah (good expectations from Allah). When you ask, remember you are asking the Most Generous King. If you hope for the best, He will give you the best. Don’t hold back. Trust in Him, pour out your heart in front of Him, and let no doubt, no barrier, no evil thoughts keep you away from ar-Rahman, ar-Raheem!

Allahumma balighna laylatal qadr.  – Shaykh Tawfique Choudhury

Needed to see this. Beautiful reminders. JazakAllah Khair 🙂

Everything becomes so hard

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Everything become so complicated

Trusting people is becoming hard

Keeping my grades up is becoming hard

Feeling pretty is becoming hard

Thinking happy thoughts is becoming hard

Doing work is becoming hard

Maintaining a friendship is becoming hard

Doing everything is becoming hard and I don’t like it

or is it just my pessimist thoughts? Why should everything turn out like this? how outrageous -_-

something i hate


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the reallity sure is harsh, for some reason i hate how things work like you know.

i just hate when people find it easier to done but they choose the harder one, okay maybe i’m stupid but what the hell is this, are they more stupid than me i don’t want to be dragged into their stupidness, they understand what they are doing is wrong but still they do it without regret, okay there is no shame doing wrong but you know shame is choose to stay wrong. and i hate it when someone claim that they do ten even though i know they just do one, i hate it when someone force me to do something troublesome and unwanted, and for remind us all the time about what they have given or done something good to us and comes up with an argument man “you really don’t appreciate what i’ve done to you last time, you are the worst.”

man beats me, i just feel like what the …. so you don’t do it sincerely? guess i can’t expect too much on anyone like this. so that’s why sometimes i hate nice people, it doesn’t mean like that. well yeah how to put it ummm …..

in my mind i often think like this for some reason i hate being helped, i hate being treated nicely. but when it comes to reality whenever someone helped me, i just can’t reject it then i feel like i owe to this guy.

i just can’t forget someone’s kindness so easily, the truth that i don’t want to owe anyone anything, i hate being in debt, i don’t know why but i do hate,  i just hate.

and i hate umm what they often call it a friend. but sometimes when it comes to hard situation they just sacrifice their friends like it’s nothing. you know? if you watcch naruto you are sure famous with this word “those who abandon their comrades are worse than scum”  it’s just like “herbivores” must abandon their comrades to avoid predators. some kind of joke right? but this is reality. we can’t deny it, jeez world sure is cruel but for some people who have good position, and have much money so they can do whatever they want with that money this world it’s like heaven but the opposite goes to believers, they think this world is a prison yet i think so.

this world is a prison, even though i’m not that pure and spiritual yet i admire it.

those who enjoy “youth” fit any event or their surroundings to their belief system of “youth” for self-confirmation. For example, those who enjoy “youth” believe lies, secrets, sins and failures are simply the beginning of what makes “youth” interesting. and i just imply that by following “youth”, one ignores the consequences of their actions. 

really i don’t know what i’ve written, how come it ended up like this, so out of topic and still my english is such a mess right? hahaha

i don’t know if u guys get an idea about what i’m talking and mumbling :3

but still, for many things i hate but also there is something i like such as when life gets hard i try to write 😀

Being Kind to others

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We ever wonder about, how must we become a nice and kind to people if the reality they don’t, is it just wasting our time to people who doesn’t understand what we call kindness? or maybe some of us already be nice and kind to others but wait… sometimes world is so cruel. people that we expect to be nice to us sometimes just turn to become a heartless bastard. yeah like they’ve forgotten what we have done to them, the way they treat us different with the way we treat them, and in the end we just regret and say that; why yesterday i helped him/her or anything blablabla ~ and continue babbling “dammit that was all just for nothing, pointless, what a waste of time.”

that’s the problem, we don’t really understand what kindness trully is. so from now on let’s keep this in mind and no need to expect and wish too much if we’ve done, helped, and been kind to others so they will do the same things to us. if someday they pay back our kindness assume that it’s just bonus for us. so nobody get hurt.

okay honestly it is quite hard for me maybe for all of us to implement that in real life, sometimes it’s natural for us to be treated same as the way we treat them (Kindness).

Being good and kind to people not because we want them to treat us good back, but because Allah is kind and He likes kindness.

called her “woman” and Dismissed her views

You can’t handle a 
Woman who can hold a cigarette 
Better than you

You can’t handle a 
Woman who can race a car 
Faster than you

You laugh at her fight for freedom
And then you wonder why 
Your mother refuses to let you enter 
The heaven that is 
Beneath her holy feet.

You never allowed her to stand on them and ask for her dues
You called her “woman” and 
Dismissed her views

You will forever be standing at 
The gates,
She will forever be guarding 
The gates

  Heaven Beneath Her Feet, Aishah Malak

There is a beautiful meaning behind InshaAllah

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Sometime I say inshaAllah kheir without actually thinking about it. Everything that Allah ta’ala blesses us with is indeed kheir. But when I really ponder over it, it has a deeper meaning.

So me and my friend, we both rushed to the classroom, we had about an hour or so till our exam started. We went through what we had learned and tried to explain it to each other. But suddenly I felt like I had forgot everything that I had learned, okay not everything, I remembered something, but not much. But still I thought inshaAllah kheir. I thought to myself only Allah could make this exam easy for me. So Allah, please make me remember when I am inside. So I walked into the classroom, and subhanAllah I remembered much more than I thought I would. It just came. This is just a small example.

The meaning behind this is that it is only Allah who can make things possible and easy for us. And only He knows what is best for us. Sometimes we think, oh why did I not make it?! But keep in mind there is a reason behind it. Maybe you doing it the second time – makes you more grateful than you would have been after making it at first. Maybe that you do it the second time causes you to spend more time reading to it than using time on other things. We may get irritated and sad about it. But there is a meaning behind it. There is actually a beautiful meaning behind it. We just can’t see it right then. Because Allah does things for a reason, and the reasons of Allah is the best of reasons. We human think just there and then, while Allah thinks longer. We have to inshaAllah always think that whatever happens is kheir. If you think like that, you will be succeed and the hope will rise, inshaAllah. 

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Of course InshaAllah have a different meaning in the other ways like you know. nowadays people use and say InshaAllah just like that such as it just becomes a nicer way to say no for rejection , like example when your friend invite you to come to his house, when someone invite you to attend Islamic seminar or whatsoever. and when they say “could you please come to my house today?” or maybe “i’m count on you for our event tomorrow”, or “can you come earlier to campus today?” when suddenly people answer with InshaAllah it’s quite natural for us as a person to feel, and ended up wondering. what i’m supposed to guess? it’s a “No” or it’s a “Yes”?

yet for people who already know the meaning of InshaAllah you better use it righteous, don’t ended up making someone’s expectation goes high and getting confused from our answer. just simply say “No” with polite attitude if you can’t, and just say “Yes, InshaAllah I will”  if you absolutly can, and if you still got dilemma and distracted you can say “InshaAllah i will, if i can’t i will let you know and inform you later” Honestly this kind of things still happen in my real life. so i need to write this as a reminder for me. of course! let me know if my opinion and my less knowledge contradict with yours so we can discuss and i can get more knowledge from all of you.

this picture from Muslim Show can represents what i’ve written a little 😀

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That’s the Worst feeling when

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You might be looked down upon by those around you, be ridiculed, considered strange, feel left-out. You might feel misunderstood, having no friends, and nobody to talk with.

You might be constantly tested with trials in your health, wealth, and work/school. Perhaps it might seem as if the whole world is against you.

But keep strong, keep striving on the path of righteousness. Nobody said it was going to be easy, but remember this, they might be enjoying themselves now for some time, but you will have eternal enjoyment and they will have eternal torment.

What they have now might seem as a bag of diamonds to you, but in reality it is mere sand, and the diamonds, yes, they are actually in your hands.

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well said because sometimes i just feel like that, i have no idea what’s going on inside my life, my mind, my heart. i just feel so miserable, distracted and feel like there is a mess inside my heart. but yeah Allah Knows best, i may’not lose hope, faith, He Always has a great planning over all. O Allah Fix My Heart because sometimes life gets harder, but i must take it as something to make me better and stronger and suddenly i remembered these awesome words.

Sometimes we become overtaken by sadness to the degree that we forget that there are many things in life that can make us happy- Mufti Ismail Menk

Struggle in My College

Salam Alaik Guys,

Thank goodness, finally i have spirit to write over again in this blog. it has been a while since i got a little busy in my college and so i have a tough time in there. well i want to tell something i’ve kept a long time all about my college.

It’s better if we start with reading Bismillah hir rahman nir raheem 🙂

maybe it’s not something that important but i’m still college student in the 5th semester, 5th semester? hahaha it’s quite funny i can made it this far. still have 3 semester left and i’ll pass this college InsyaAllah Aamiin.

I take managerial accounting department even though it’s not mine at all, how funny when i passed senior high school and come to this college to register and i put my choice in this department. it’s just sounds good to hear such a “Manager” in my ears that day *kinda lame* -_-

but i can’t regret it, i thought it will be easier for me if i try to live and wish if time can bring me to understand it yet that was just my imagination now i’m stuck in this deparment. AND NOW I FEEL LIKE *I JUST WANNA DIE* haha hell no of course it’s kidding  :))

i know that my heart prefers to Design and Graphic, Information Technology. but how can i stuck in this deparment at least i should take engineering than this., I’m struggle too much in this department. luckily i have some friend who feel the same as mine.

but that doesnt mean that i and my friend way too stupid or such a dumbass who don’t understand a thing, we just struggle in 2 subject from 7 subject. it means that we just need more study harder than before even ain’t nobody got time for that haha 😀

and so in my college it takes so many hour just for study, basically it’s about 8 hours same like worker who work at company. i expected too much to become college student when i was in senior high school.

honestly it’s quite suck when we’re surrounded by some task everyday, it’s like they just want to make us live our life like a robot. still when i get stressed in college, my mom yelled at me in home sometimes when she get overtired from her office . it’s getting harder everyday seems like i can’t enjoy this live anymore. i’m here not blaming anyone, education or standart in education, and also i’m not even making an excuse or create justification. this is the truth

we are restricted for some task, like they don’t even know maybe we have something more important to do outside, not a few lecture who see us just on academic. there is a reason why i didn’t end up to join the organization in my college. i can’t describe it,  that way to complicated.

i just need to think outside the box sometimes, make my life more worthy than before, live this world as a real human who just not master in academic but in faith, confidence, my religion.  

I didn’t blame Allah(Swt) because He didn’t give me what i wanted, rather blame myself for not trusting Him, because maby He might have something better for me later. I realize that there’s purpose in every struggle that we face. Continue and continue to trust Allah Swt No matter how bad things may look, His grace is enough, right?

i don’t mean and intend if there are my words that insult anyone, no offense 🙂

when you work on the things you dont like, you stucked when you work on the things you dont know, you stucked when you working with those who helpless, you stucked so, choose your carrier wisely. or you stucked like me.

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Note: sorry for my bad english, whether my grammar that make you guys confused, but i alr try as best as i can 🙂

Talking About Time

 

Time

 

Well well talking about time, there is something special about time, if i recall it sounds like “time is the most precious thing, so worth it to us”

as human beings, and especially as muslims, it is our duty to put our time into good use. you are on this earth for a limited time, and before you know your days will pass before your eyes and you will have wasted most of your life away.

start now. start young. pick up the Quran. pick up a book. stop arguing with others about things you have limited knowledge of. stop arguing with people, period. don’t you dare spend a second being negative and bringing others down, the world already has enough of that, be positive and act beautifully to other people. by helping others, you help strengthen your own core. get involved in intellectual discussions, every second you spend talking about mediocre things is an insult to your brain. help yourself evolve. focus on living a healthy life, physically, mentally, and spiritually. maintain your prayers. try to pray them on time, always. it is the biggest blessing as muslims, it is a mercy to our own souls, don’t take it lightly. grow. grow grow and never stop growing. question everything until you come to conclusions and are fully convinced in what you believe in. this faith is not for the loosely convinced. if you are going to believe, believe with all your heart and soul. 

stop sitting around. stop waiting for something to happen. stop saying “tomorrow”. the time to work is now. the time to learn is now. the time to grow is now. the time to be kind, to yourself and to others is now. make something of your life. God placed you on this Earth to see what you can make of your life, so make Him proud by putting your all.

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Oh Allah i’m on my way, help me 🙂

Take a breath and keep Sabr

Sometimes…

All you gotta do is To take a deep breathe in and out

And istighfar as much as you can  And tell yourself

For everything that happens Theres a great blessings awaiting for you

And if only you have Sabr  Beautiful Patience in your heart

Indeed He will reward you

It is definitely okay to not be okay  But most importantly is Once you okay Quickly get back on track

And this life is a test  And if you pass it There’ll be great reward for you

By : Hijabiz